WARNING- If you are contacting the FCIC seeking help, please be sure that it is with a private email address that only you have access.

Email us at: eelarkins@suddenlink.net

 24 HOUR HOTLINE: 1-800-794-2335 or 304-428-2333 


















This brief accounting in no way represents the total number of domestic violence related deaths in West Virginia. Data gathered came from media outlets and information provided by licensed domestic violence programs. 




Helping You To Survive.

If you’re feeling frightened about what comes next, don’t be. Embrace the uncertainty. Allow it to lead you places. Be brave as it challenges you to exercise both your heart and your mind as you create your own path towards happiness, don’t waste time with regret. Spin wildly into your next action. 

Enjoy the present, each moment, as it comes; because you’ll never get another one quite like it. And if you should ever look up and find yourself lost, simply take a breath and start over. Retrace your steps and go back to the purest place in your heart.. where your hope lives. You’ll find you’re way again.

The FCIC cares about you, cares for you, comforts you, gives you shelter, clothing and the life you long for, and we're just a phone call away. Our 24 hour hot line: 1.800.794.2335 or 1.304.428.2333.

One in four women will be a victim of domestic violence in their lifetime. Odds are you or someone you know will be a victim. The Fcic Domesticviolence Shelter serves 8 counties in our area. 



A Child Exchange and Monitored Visitation Center is under the direction of the Family Crisis Intervention Center, a licensed domestic violence program. The Visitation Centers are annually certified through the State of West Virginia Family Protection Services Board for Monitored Parenting and Exchange Programs. The Kids First Program operates in Jackson, Ritchie, Roane, and Wood counties.

The Kids First Programs provide families a child-focused and friendly environment, where children can be free from tensions and stresses that may be part of exchanges and visitations, by eliminating contact between parents during exchanges and visitations.




24 HOUR HOTLINE: 1-800-794-2335 or 304-428-2333 WARNING- If you are contacting the FCIC seeking help, please be sure that it is with a private email address that only you have access.  


This brief accounting in no way represents the total number of domestic violence related deaths in West Virginia. Data gathered came from media outlets and information provided by licensed domestic violence programs.

"In my darkest hour both broken and bruised I didn't know how I would cope or heal. I found a place of hope and encouragement, and I found it within the walls of the FCIC. It was there I recovered and gained strength, and they gave me the greatest gift of all...a helping hand at obtaining my independence and freedom. May god bless this wonderful haven, and those who reside and work within it."

~Celena Roby, Author of Celena's Law / Board Member FCIC



What is Domestic Violence?

Domestic Violence is a violent confrontation between family or household members involving physical harm, sexual assault, or fear of physical harm. Family or household members include spouses / former spouses, those in (or formerly in) a dating relationship, adults related by blood or marriage, and those who have a biological or legal parent-child relationship.

The batterer uses acts of violence and a series of behaviors, including intimidation, threats, psychological abuse, and isolation to coerce and to control the other person. The violence may not happen often, but may remain a hidden and constant terrorizing factor. Domestic violence is not only physical and sexual violence but also psychological. Psychological violence means intense and repetitive degradation, creating isolation, and controlling the actions or behaviors of the spouse through intimidation or manipulation to the detriment of the individual.

Domestic violence destroys the home. No one deserves to be abused. The responsibility for the violence belongs to the abuser. It is not the victim's fault!

Symptoms of Abuse - Misuse of Power And Control

Abuse in a relationship is any act used to gain power and control over another person. Women who are abused physically are often isolated. Their partners tend to control their lives to a great extent as well as verbally degrade them.

Listed below are some of the warning signs of domestic abuse. Look to see if there are multiple warning signs that are occurring in your life.


Hair pulling, biting, shaking, pushing, pinching, choking, kicking, confinement, slapping, hitting, punching, using weapons, forced intercourse, unwanted sexual touching in public or in private and depriving her of food or sleep.


Insulting her in public or in private 
Putting down her friends and family 
Making her feel bad about herself 
Calling her names 
Making her think she's crazy 
Playing mind games 
Humiliating her 
Making her feel guilty 
Using Male Privilege; acting like "Master of the Castle" 
Treating her like a servant 
Making all the big decisions 
Being the one to define men's and women's roles.


Preventing her from getting or keeping a job 
Making her ask for money 
Giving her an allowance 
Taking her money 
Not letting her know about or have access to family income 
Not allowing her a voice in important financial decisions 
Demanding exclusive control over household finances.


Making or carrying out threats to do something to hurt her 
Threatening to leave her, or to commit suicide 
Threatening to report her to welfare 
Making her drop charges 
Making her do illegal things.


Making her afraid by using looks, gestures, or actions 
Throwing or smashing things, destroying property 
Abusing pets 
Dangerous driving 
Displaying weapons.


Making her feel guilty about the children 
Using the children to relay messages 
Using visitation to harass her 
Threatening to take the children away.


Controlling what she does, who she sees, what she reads, & where she goes 
Limiting her outside involvement 
Refusing to let her learn to drive, go to school, or get a job 
Not allowing her to freely use the car or the telephone.


Minimizing, Denying, Blaming 
Making light of the abuse and not taking her concerns about it seriously
Checking up on where she's been or who she's talked to 
Accusing her of infidelity 
Saying the abuse didn't happen 
Shifting responsibility for abusive behavior 
Saying she caused it.

Why Get Help?

The danger is real.

If you are controlling or have a controlling partner, don't ignore these behaviors. They are not the result of stress, anger, drugs or alcohol. They are learned behaviors that one person uses to dominate, intimidate and manipulate. They are destructive and dangerous.

If the abuse continues without outside help, the abusing partner may risk being arrested, going to jail, or losing the relationship.

Domestic violence hurts all family members. When a person is abusive he or she eventually loses the trust and respect of his or her partner. Abused partners are afraid to communicate their feelings and needs.

Everyone has the right to feel safe in a relationship. With help, people who are abusive can learn to be non-violent.

Learn the Warning Signs

Disagreements develop from time to time in relationships. Domestic violence is not a disagreement. It is a whole pattern of behaviors used by one partner to establish and maintain power and control over the other. These behaviors can become more frequent and intense over time.

The abusive person is responsible for these behaviors. That person is the only one who can change them. Don't wait until you and the ones you love get hurt. You Are Not Alone. Consider getting some help. Talk with friends about your situation.

FCIC Sexual Assault/Abuse services are provided in the West Virginia counties of Calhoun, Jackson, Pleasants, Ritchie, Roane, Tyler, Wirt and Wood.